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break the ice

/breɪk ði aɪs/

[/breɪk ði aɪs/]

ease social tension

Intermediatephrase

Definition

To do or say something to relieve tension and start a conversation among strangers.

Example

He told a funny story to break the ice, and soon everyone at the table was laughing together.

He told a funny story to break the ice, and soon everyone at the table was laughing together.

Etymology

From the literal breaking of ice to let ships pass; figurative use dates to the 16th century.

How & Where It’s Used

Common in social and professional settings for easing first encounters.

Literary Heritage

Used figuratively by Sir Thomas North and later popularised through Byron's 'Don Juan'.

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